Teacher Says “Abandon This Idea” Of Intimacy After Controversy Over Students Unbraiding His Hair

A teacher’s widely watched video, capturing his students unbraiding his hair, turned into a hotly debated topic with the internet divided over whether it was appropriate or not.

The science teacher named JaQ Lee was pushed to the center of controversy after he livestreamed the last few minutes of class and showed four of his female students unbraiding his hair.

The educator later posted a clip from the livestream on Friday, May 3, 2024, and the four-minute-odd video drew massive attention to his classroom ethics. Some reports also claimed that JaQ Lee was fired after people tsk-tsked his actions.

JaQ Lee was pushed to the center of controversy because of a viral clip of his students unbraiding his hair

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“Students don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. Teaching is a work of heart,” he captioned the clip.

In the TikTok video that amassed more than 6.8 million views, the middle school teacher explained in a voice-over that he had a hair appointment after school that day and couldn’t unbraid his hair the night before.

“That Friday, we had a camera crew coming in to shoot a promotional video, and I was one of the ones being interviewed. I had to look presentable, so I had to take my hair out. I didn’t have the time to do it all myself,” he explained.

Reports say that the science teacher lost his job, as many expressed disapproval upon seeing the incident

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He went on to address certain claims from netizens who felt it was “too intimate” for his students to be unbraiding his hair. It’s “literally just hair,” the science teacher reasoned.

“If I was a female teacher, those people wouldn’t be in the comments saying, ‘Oh, this is weird, this is inappropriate.’ Because me personally, I know think there isn’t anything weird about this. People are saying, ‘Oh, that’s too intimate.’ To me, it’s literally just hair,” he said. “It doesn’t have to be weird.”

“Some people have never had cool teachers, and it shows,” the content creator said in his TikTok video

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The TikToker with more than 768.6K followers also explained that he strives to be the kind of educator who is not only focused on teaching what is written in textbooks but going beyond by building a rapport with his students.

“I take the time to get to know my students outside of academics because caring for the whole child is what’s important,” he said.

The viral clip of the teacher explaining his actions amassed more than 6.8 million views

@thilluminatin1 Students don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. Teaching is a work of heart. Comment your thoughts #teacher #teachersoftiktok #teacherproblems #millenialsoftiktok #middleschool ♬ Chopin Nocturne No.2 Op.9-2(1391533) – 314P

“What I strive to do as an educator is be the teacher I wish I had growing up,” he added. “I strive to be the teacher that makes my inner child happy, someone that my inner child will be proud of. I wanna be the teacher that my students reflect back on 20, 30 years down the line and think like, ‘Dang, that teacher I had in middle school, he was the sh–.’”

To naysayers writing comments about intimacy, the content creator said there was “nothing suggestive” going on.

The teacher revealed in one video that he promised he would reward his students with a beverage and snack for patiently unbraiding his hair

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“We as a people have to abandon this idea of sexual intimacy being tied with getting your hair done. Y’all can see there’s nothing suggestive going on. It’s like family, it’s like community… this is simply a wholesome, innocent community-oriented activity,” he said.

Plenty of people defended the TikTok personality’s actions in the classroom and said, “Its like a big brother and lil sister behavior.”

JaQ Lee picked out one particular social media user’s negative comment and explained why he thought his actions were appropriate in a classroom

@thilluminatin1 Replying to @Richie 😮‍💨 let me know if you made it through this whole clip 🙏🏽 #teacher #teachers #teachersoftiktok #teacherlife #teacherproblems #middleschool #millenialsoftiktok ♬ original sound – JaQ Lee

“I see nothing wrong. Some of them may not have a father figure or big brother at home, so keep it up. Be there for them,” one said, while another chimed in, “Not to mention… culturally… this is a very very common bonding/communication/learning moment.”

“A safe space is important. It takes a village,” another said.

The science teacher was seen tearfully reading out messages from his students in a video posted after the controversy

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A commenter, who described themself as a “social worker,” said, “You are following all of the appropriate boundaries! You are in the open, not alone with one student, and the students are willing participants. The energy is great.”

On the other hand, people on the other side of the argument said they wouldn’t want their child doing this.

“As a mother I would have been livid!!!!” one said.

In the messages the students sent the teacher, some said they missed his presence and were waiting for his return to the school

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Another said, “Idk about this…it seems kinda intimate to me but i guess.”

“It’s definitely something I’ve never seen before and wouldn’t want my child to do,” read one comment.

“Nope. This a boundary that you don’t cross,” said another.

JaQ Lee has more than 768.9K followers on TikTok because of the fun videos he captures from within the walls of his classroom

@thilluminatin1 We’re ✨building relationships✨😂😅 #teacher #teachersoftiktok #teacherlife #teacherproblems #middleschool #gossip ♬ original sound – TheWadeEmpire

Following the backlash, the TikTok-famous educator addressed negative comments targeting his video and said he believes people should disentangle the “intimacy” notions attached to hair.

He also posted a video of himself growing visibly emotional and crying as he read out comments from his students saying they miss his presence in school and are looking forward to his return.

In another video he later shared on TikTok, JaQ Lee shared snippets from school that make him an “unconventional teacher.”

“An unconventional teacher is someone who eschews traditional teaching methods and approaches in favor of innovative, creative, and non-traditional techniques to engage and educate their students,” he wrote in the caption.

The internet hotly debated the act of students unbraiding the teacher’s hair, with some thinking there was nothing wrong, while others said it was inappropriate

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