It’s been said that advice is only worth what you pay for it, and it’s also true that nothing comes for free. When asking for tips on a particular situation, then, it’s a good idea to find someone who has gone through it before and can hence speak from experience.
With this in mind, X user Sahil Bloom had a smart idea. In the month leading up to his 32nd birthday, he reached out to senior citizens to ask them for one piece of advice they’d give to their 32-year-old selves. Bloom then took to X to list the top 40 pearls of wisdom he received.
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#1
Allow your kids to fail. You will hate it, but it’s so important.
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#2
If something has a minor issue, repair it. Minor issues become major issues over time. Applies equally to love, friendships, health, and home.
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#3
Now and then, break out the fancy china and drink the good wine for no reason at all.
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#4
Do one good deed every single day, but never tell anyone about it.
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#5
Find the things that make your eyes light up. Do more of those.
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#6
It doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be wonderful.
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#7
Tell your partner you love them every night before falling asleep. Someday you’ll find the other side of the bed empty and wish you could.
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#8
Treat your body like a house you have to live in for another 70 years.
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#9
Give everybody a second chance, but never a third.
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#10
There’s nothing wrong with shedding old relationships as you grow and change.
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#11
Stubborn pride is the downfall of many men and women. Learn to forget the slight hurts and avoid grudges.
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#12
Stop trying to change people who don’t want to be changed.
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#13
Time doesn’t heal anything when it comes to relationships. Don’t delay difficult conversations.
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#14
Don’t fear sadness, as it tends to sit right next to love.
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#15
Do one thing that challenges your mind every single day. A crossword puzzle, math problem, anything. Daily “exercise” will keep your mind sharp for the long haul.
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#16
Never let a good friendship atrophy. Send the text, make the call, plan the trip. Good friendships must be treasured.
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#17
If your kid wants to dance in line at the store, join them.
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#18
The most damning lie you can tell is the lie you tell to yourself.
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#19
If there’s something bothering you, ask yourself whether it will matter in one month. If not, let it go right now.
#20
Looking presentable is a matter of self-respect.
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#21
Smile and say good morning to strangers on the street.
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#22
You may occasionally disappoint others, but make sure to never disappoint yourself.
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#23
Never raise your voice, except for at a ballgame.
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#24
Getting old is no picnic, but it’s much better than the alternative.
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#25
If it’s raining on a warm summer evening, go outside and dance in it.
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#26
No amount of money is ever worth trading for your peace of mind.
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#27
When you meet someone, look them in the eye, give a firm handshake, and call them by their name.
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#28
When in doubt, love. We can always use more love.
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#29
Travel as much as you can. Collect one token from every trip to remember it by.
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#30
If something isn’t working and your gut tells you to try harder, first ask whether there’s just an easier way to do it.
#31
Laugh loudly and unapologetically whenever you feel like it.
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#32
The “good old days” are always happening right now.
#33
If you’re going to lose a fight, make sure the other person thinks twice before fighting you again.
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#34
No one has ever argued their way to happiness.
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#35
Dance at weddings until your feet are sore.
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#36
Whenever you hug someone, make sure they are the one to let go first.
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